Letter to a Veteran Homeschool Mom

Dear Veteran Homeschool Mom

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Mother’s Day is right around the corner and I’ve gotten together with a group of bloggers to bring you a giveaway and blog hop that we are hoping will bless your socks off! We not only hope to bless several moms with some pretty awesome giveaway prizes, but we also hope to bless many more moms through the Letters to Moms Blog Hop (that you can find at the end of this post).

So please, hop around to the many other bloggers below, and of course enter to win the giveaway too – there will be 4 winners with the total prize value over $1000!

Dear veteran Homeschool MomDear Veteran Homeschool Mom,

I know you’ve been doing this homeschool thing for a while. It’s demanded so much of you. You have given up career opportunities, the financial ability to have things you want, and so much time. You penny pinched and baked from scratch, you bought clothes at thrift prices and prayed – a lot. You have been dedicated to your children because you know how important a good education is and because you wanted to give them the best. You have made many sacrifices.

You have been dedicated to your children because you know how important a good education is and because you wanted to give them the best possible.

You may be feeling less inspired than ever and now, homeschooling is no longer easy elementary material. You may also still have younger children who require most of your time. As your older children progress so has their intellect. Now, you have to do more with less and be an expert on heavier and more advanaced coursework with more grading. You have to think about SAT’s and college entrance. In addition, your children are asserting their independence. They challenge you more and finish their work less. It’s not the fun and engaging teaching you remember. But it’s real and you’re doing it.

You may be feeling less inspired than ever and now, homeschooling is no longer easy elementary material.

You’ve done everything right. You taught them right from wrong. You led by example. You purchased the best curriculum you could find. You read great books and had family read alouds. Is it possible the world still spoke louder than you in this age of technology and self fulfillment?

I’m here to tell you. No. It didn’t. You DID do everything right! Don’t doubt yourself. This is a natural stage that you and your child must go through. It’s essential for them to do before they go out on their own into the world. I know it would be better if everything could be as you planned, getting easier every year. But that’s not real homeschooling. All of our kids are different and have different needs.

Don’t doubt yourself. This is a natural stage that you and your child must go through.

Rest assured, from someone who has been there, that even if your child strays a little ( or even a lot), they will come back to those important things you have taught them about family, life and love. They will return to the message you gave them by your sacrifice and dedication. It may not be right away, but they will. What you have done for them will never be forgotten. And you did the right thing.

They’re just trying to figure life out- it’s natural. And if you’re lucky they will come to you for advice when they need it, but beyond that they must search for themselves.

Letter to a Veteran Homeschool MomThis may affect your homeschool a little. That means it’s time to revise your plans and strategies, finish strong, and find your own inspiration to see you through those nitty gritty days to graduation and beyond. It’s time to get inspired and be inspired! Read something you love and surround yourself with things you love. Focus your time on things worth your time and energy and that reward you personally!

Be sure to care for yourself a little and continue to be someone they can admire. Don’t get discouraged. Keep praying. Let them go ever so slightly and cheer them on from a distance. Trust them. Reimagine the homeschool of your dreams. Modernize it a little perhaps and work smarter, not harder.

That means it’s time to revise your plans and strategies, finish strong, and find your own inspiration to see you through those nitty gritty days to graduation and beyond. 

Don’t worry about being the homeschool mother of the year. Don’t compare your homeschool to others’. Be confident in yourself- you know what you’re doing. Outsource what you need to and focus on what’s required.

This endeavor was never about you. The children you have homeschooled are their own people.  They have something different to give the world. God has a plan for them. So, be at peace and remember! Remember why you homeschooled in the first place, how far you have come, and how marvelously your children have grown. Soon they will be men and women of their own and have their own dreams and missions.

Be confident in yourself- you know what your doing. Outsource what you need to and focus on what’s required. 

Don’t quit now veteran homeschool mom. You’re a success! Reinvent the homeschool of your dreams and take it to the next level!

Your friend and fellow homeschool mom,

Stephanie

 

 

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Prize 2 – Slow Cooker

Prize 3 – Keurig Coffee Maker

Prize 4 – ALL 3 of the prizes above

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19 Comments

  • Betsy Barnes

    I was 32 years old when I became the mother of a wonderful son. This will be my 22nd Mother’s Day celebration with him and I am am so proud! 🙂

  • Carrie

    I had my first child at 23 and my 12th at 47… Thanks for offering such nice prizes!

  • Laura

    I became a mom when I was 31. I have one sweet little girl.

  • Christine

    I was 24 when I had my first child. I am now a proud mom of five children.

  • jennifer

    I was 29 when I first became a mom. It was my goal to start before 30. And now have 3 girls.

  • Lynne

    I was about to turn 27 when I first became a mom and have since given him 6 siblings.

  • KarenTrina

    On my 25th year of homeschooling with one more year to go. Such great words of encouragement, since sometimes they do stray and you wonder what you did wrong, but then remember they make their own decisions when they grow up and leave.

  • Tammi

    I was 23 when I became a mom. I have 4 kids.

  • Jan Larkins

    I was 28 when we had our first child. Now we have two (a girl & a boy).

  • Linda

    We veteran homeschool moms need these encouraging words, Stephanie – thank you! You’ve spurred me on the finish the race strong. We still have 4 at home and I sometimes wish for the days of having young ones, I always felt I did better at that stage than preparing older children for adulthood.
    Thanks for you letter, and Happy Mother’s Day to you!

  • Ronee Jordan

    I was 20 years old when I became a mom….SEVERAL years ago! lol We have 8 children. I am excited that we just completed our 20th year of educating our children at home through God’s grace. God is good!

  • Lori H

    My hubby and I have been married 22 years and I was 21 when we had our first baby girl blessing. We have 6 blessings and 2 beautiful grandchildren 🙂

  • Jam4Four

    I was 25 when I became a mom and now I have 4!

  • Maureen

    Oops! I guess I should have read the directions first before posting! Haha! Sounds like something we’d tell our kids! I became a mom at twenty-seven and now have four children. Happy Mother’s Day, again!

  • Maureen

    Great giveaway! Happy Mother’s Day to all!

  • Jessica Martin

    I was 22 when my first soon was born mothers day weekend in 2007! This will be my 9th mothers day wow time had flown by! I am now a mama of 5 boys and one girl!